Monday, June 11, 2012

June 11, 2012 At Home with the Hess Family

A Page from Bobby's Babybook
To Cathy, Carol, Jody and Amber:  

Your parents, Karl and Mary (“Aggie”), offered a place for B & Bonnie to live in their own home in the midst of a very serious housing shortage.  Quickly becoming friends, your folks generously offered their help, hearts and possessions…without your mom's sewing machine, Bonnie would have been hand-sewing the entire time she was in New Berlin!  Your mom and aunt provided Bonnie with her first maternity clothes for which I'm sure she was very grateful!  Bonnie and your mom had many interests in common, particularly literature and politics, and Bonnie was especially inspired by your mom's passion for writing.  As a newcomer to the College, B was warmly welcomed by your dad and they enjoyed each others company while sharing rides to work, helping to watch the kids and working on the house together.  I love your dad's chosen Shakespeare quote under his yearbook photo, "As upright as a cedar."  I know your parents' home was a happy household, active already with the 2 young children and more so with another baby when my brother arrived.  While B & Bonnie would have loved their own home as they started a family, they enjoyed their time in yours and loved feeling a part of the family.  Many, many thanks for writing!

Cathy shares:


My father grew up in Fond du Lac, Wisconsin, and my mother grew up in Elmira, New York, and Columbus, Ohio.  They met at the University of Wisconsin in Madison while they were both studying there, and were both involved in theater.  They were married in 1939.  After World War II, during which my father was stationed in France and my mother lived with her parents in Lakeville, Connecticut, they settled in East Berlin, Connecticut.   My father was the director of the Evening Division at Central Connecticut State College (now University), and later also became the Director of the Summer Session. Sailing and gardening were two of his great loves.  In addition to writing plays (you mentioned Of All the Years, her Christmas play that was published) and directing local theater, my mother was actively involved as a Girl Scout leader, School Board member, in church life (Berlin Congregational Church), and countless other civic affairs and initiatives.  Mary was a lifelong activist… interested in local and national politics she worked tirelessly for peace and justice, especially through the Women’s International League for Peace and Freedom.  She loved literature and theater, was a poet and was an award-winning playwright.  She loved gardening and travel as well.  There are four of us girls.  My dad died in 1990, and my mom in 2005.  

NOTE from Ann:  Use this link for the history of the WILPF:  http://wilpf.org/US_WILPF 

And for a great article about Mary:  http://articles.courant.com/2006-01-01/features/0512300438_1_karl-hess-summer-school-world-peace 

1 comment:

  1. What a fascinating post - and woman! Mary lead a very accomplished life and sounds like she would have been a lovely, interesting person to have as a friend.

    Thank you very much for your recent blog comment, dear Ann, I really appreciate it and hope you have a gorgeous week!

    ♥ Jessica

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